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PacificDiver's avatar

Clown World's war on reality never lets up.

I'm both educated and HNW. The woman I'm currently courting is much younger, slender and beautiful. She is also feminine, sweet, supportive, thoughtful, more traditionally minded, and not high maintenance.

But if I'm understanding all of the narrative management, I'm expected to prefer someone much older, heavier, and not/no longer as beautiful? A more masculine, combative "boss babe" whose mind has been warped by feminism? Someone "educated" (indoctrinated). As well as probably both high maintenance and with a massive entitlement complex? I'd rather be a monk.

Rashad Emanuel's avatar

Men like young attractive women? Can’t believe that research funds were allocated to that project lol

The Imaginary Hobgoblin's avatar

I, for one, am shocked….SHOCKED I say!

David Shimm's avatar

Yeah.

Next they'll be trying to sell us some foolishness like the sun rises in the East, or water runs downhill.

Crazy, huh?

Frank Lee's avatar

I did my own study and data collection.

My findings...

Women want a strong, decisive, tall, handsome, wealthy, sensitive, career man, that will put his career aside to provide the childcare, cooking and home care while she pursues her career, but then somehow he also continues to attract her and capture her respect as being an ambitious go-getter that can take care of her.

Men generally want a woman that isn't a bitch.

Elias Lumen's avatar

At no point in my life while dating women before I married did I give one flying fuckola about what they did for a living and how much money they made.

Was I attracted to her? Was she kind? Did she seem emotionally stable?

Pretty short list. Money and career isn't on it.

Jason Chastain's avatar

Great post. The feminist claim was obvious bunk. Yeah, educated, professional men will mostly meet those women. 🙄

Funniest of all, they try to use that particular strategy to debunk their most desperate threat: the passport Bros. Nothing gets them angrier than men traveling to traditional countries to find a beautiful traditional woman.😂

Kevin S's avatar

Add to that what Christian Rudder, the founder of OKCupid, noted in his book Dataclysm. His company’s internal data showed that men of all ages consistently preferred women who were 22-23 years of age. Women of all ages preferred men who were about 3 years older than themselves.

Elias Lumen's avatar

At no point during my dating life before I got married was I ever concerned about what the woman did for a living or how much she made. Not once.

Do I find her attractive?

Does she appear to be kind to me and others?

Does she appear to be emotionally and mentally stable?

I've been married for 22 years to a woman 15 years my junior.

ZS's avatar

Women value success more than men, undoubtedly. I’m less convinced that women value looks less than men, in absolute terms. Women are just pickier than men overall, so looks matter less in relative terms.

In numbers, let’s say men want a woman who scores 7+/10, and the points are primarily looks (I’m simplifying), whereas women want a 16+/20, where those 16 points come from a combination of looks and status. On average women might be even pickier on looks (8 vs 7), but looks alone are insufficient, and they will also date a 4 in looks if he’s a 12 in status, or a 4 in status if he’s a 12 in looks etc.

Obv the numbers aren’t exact but you get the idea.

Ron Tkacz's avatar

These “studies” are nothing more than a questionnaire, a bunch of written questions designed to gather opinions from a specific group of people.

Opinions are like a$$holes; everybody has one.

What women WANT vs what women SAY they want on a survey are NOT the same things.

It turns out that women WANT what they’re attracted to; and they’re attracted to TALL.

Given the choice between two guys with identical qualifications, women choose the taller guy every time.

Yeh, it’s that simple.

john kingsbury's avatar

I have an MD, my wife didn't finish college. She's older than me, that didn't matter. Of course, She's very attractive. But what i really wanted, and got, was a really good mother for my kids.

TheSpiritof76!'s avatar

Main stream media tells me I should be looking for heavily tattooed, unnatural hair color, septum piercing and a trout lure hanging out of her lip, oh yeah and a foul mouth and grossly overweight. I’m guessing this study is off!!!! lol! 😂

Al DuClur's avatar

And men want a woman who is devoted to the family and treats him well. This is an aspect of not competing with the man that women are told to reject as patriarchal.

**CHAOS [ JUNG ] CLPWN**'s avatar

Who gives a fuck what they want?

Indigenius's avatar

57% of total votes for Biden were women. 54% of total votes for Harris were women. Nobody cares what women want. #RepealThe19th

The Kurgan's avatar

Dude, you REALLY need to stop using AI to write your posts for you. It’s fucking obvious.

Sumotoad's avatar

Biology supports these behaviors. A healthy 60-year-old man is perfectly capable of impregnating a 23-year-old woman. For breeding purposes a woman at 30 is nearly washed up— she has lost 90% of her eggs by then.