Increased suffering for both genders is the result of female leadership. It is not accident that letting emotional animals runs things results in failure. Only the suppression of rational male voices allowed us to fall this far.
You say this was never political it was always biological. Feminists themselves, for a very long time have repeated this phrase “the personal is political” another way to say that is “the biological is political”. My question is, why don’t you believe feminists when they tell you who they are?
Maybe you prefer to stay away from the political yourself, and that’s fine. But, to say this has never been political is to discount 75% of what has happened in the Western world since 1967. I think it’s rather misleading. And yes, it truly is both.
Don’t get me wrong, I love your work. But there’s a bigger broader picture here that so many with your level of expertise seem to be purposely ignoring for at least 15-20 years now. And it’s rather frustrating to say the least.
Yes it appears to be so. The current trends mentioned in the article appear to point towards an alienation of the two sees, and women increasingly choosing to associate with fellow women for comfort and companionship, whether romantic or platonic. This then begets the next question : what will be the effect on the masses of young men ineligible for the game of hypergamy?
That’s where it’s headed; mostly incompetent, emotional men, lots of crime, bastard kids everywhere, unruly women.
Women have never loved men; they want the resources that they typically got from men.
That’s why a man now need Game or passports to get laid consistently. Longterm solution is put them back in the home, uneducated so they have no options.
Well written piece, but sadly falls on deaf ears, especially for women. Even with all the empirical data, they just create a new 'dragon to slay', for example, now blaming pre-menopause, menopause, postmenopausal, or peri-menopausal 'issues' that were never addressed as the new 'boogeyman'. Women will never admit that feminism fucked generations of women, so they double-down and defend the ideology. They want to be right so badly, that they forego happiness in the process.
Ironically, the women's health 'issues' weren't addressed before because they were a biological inconvenience for the ideology.
In fact, not so long ago, many of the points I've seen women's health campaigners make were widely dismissed as misogynistic myth (i.e. falsehoods, stereotypes and narratives meant to justify inequal outcomes).
Yep. "Women can do anything a man can do" ... except during her period, or while pregnant, or for a year after pregnancy, or any time around menopause, or while she has emotional upset at home.
Sad that the feminist solution to female unhappiness caused by feminism is always more feminism. It is a shame that young women aren't capable of learning from the experience of older women and they always reinforce feminism. Someday this may change but for the foreseeable future, it will keep getting worse.
Great article, Richard. It brings to mind a recent essay by Unbekoming, which is perhaps complementary to your post -- that being the contribution to this whole episode in human history of hormonal contraception -- the chemical element layered on top of everything you've outlined here. https://unbekoming.substack.com/p/the-progress-that-wasnt
You both state that women generally have office jobs that nobody would miss it it disappeared (sort-of true), and that women are chasing careers.
Maybe it is just a difference in language but to me, an office clerk can be said to have a job. Like most of the workforce, they don't have a career.
That in itself might be part of the disappointment. Boys are told to get a job and are happy to have one. Women are told to have a career (with sparkly images of managerial positions and salaries to match) and 95% are unhappy when they find all they end up with is a boring 9 to 5 job that they hate.
The great researcher William Collins (The Empathy Gap) once said the best trick feminism pulled was to convince women not to live free at home with someone else responsible for the bills, and instead go off to a boring job all day and become a wage slave.
Feminists have created a nightmare for women. How many of these 20,30,40 years olds are going to feel the same way about being single when they are 50 or 60? This placeholder for happiness sold by feminist is going to wear thin in a few decades of cat ownership.
To understand the structural nature of the problem simply consider this - how many of the leading feminist voices are career oriented rather than family oriented and how likely do you think they are to willingly step aside and allow a mother returning from years of child-raising to take their place on the lectern or publishing schedule?
For structural reasons the career oriented women have dominated the debate since at least the start of 2nd wave feminism. They have set out to replace patriarchy but the last thing those women were interested in was matriarchy. They have created a narrative in which motherhood is low status while career oriented things are high status. For those few women who got the publishing deals and places on the presentation circuit that might have given them the social reward they desired but most women are finding what most men learned already from the previous generations - work does not care about you and they will forget you soon after you walk out the door.
It is the reward structures of academia and the mass media that sorted so effectively for career oriented voices to dominate the discussion. It seems to me that other voices have very likely existed but we will not have heard them. We now have decades of collected feminist thought and very little of it is uplifting of the things that actually a lot of women always wanted - better relationships, more supportive husbands, and a reflection of how important parenthood is to society. The best that the career oriented version of feminism we have can offer to mothers is to hand off your children to strangers at subsidised rates so you can go back to your precious status-building career.
Funny. The first thing I saw in the late 60's was more men practicing love 'em and leave 'em and trying to convince women it was okay. Seemed like masculine duty to family as a value took a hit then too. Seems like feminism became mainstream a little later, as did porn. A lot of women went to work because husbands sent them, too.
Yeah. I don't have data, but it seems like a minority of men won the sexual revolution. I think most men did better under monogamy, where a woman had to commit early, based on a man's potential. Then his best hope of satisfaction was a happy, faithful marriage, since catering to biological urges toward variety tended to have long-term consequences.
Maybe I'm wrong, but it's definitely not all about feminism.
Increased suffering for both genders is the result of female leadership. It is not accident that letting emotional animals runs things results in failure. Only the suppression of rational male voices allowed us to fall this far.
You say this was never political it was always biological. Feminists themselves, for a very long time have repeated this phrase “the personal is political” another way to say that is “the biological is political”. My question is, why don’t you believe feminists when they tell you who they are?
Maybe you prefer to stay away from the political yourself, and that’s fine. But, to say this has never been political is to discount 75% of what has happened in the Western world since 1967. I think it’s rather misleading. And yes, it truly is both.
Don’t get me wrong, I love your work. But there’s a bigger broader picture here that so many with your level of expertise seem to be purposely ignoring for at least 15-20 years now. And it’s rather frustrating to say the least.
Also, I wrote a very similar article a month ago. Glad to see we are on the same page..
https://theculturalreckoning.substack.com/p/the-happiness-paradox-the-deep-dive?r=83fpq9&utm_medium=ios
Great write up: Roissy said it years ago that feminism was made by and for lesbians, that is women who don’t feel the drive to have kids with a man.
Small wonder it makes most straight women, the majority of women, unhappy.
Yes it appears to be so. The current trends mentioned in the article appear to point towards an alienation of the two sees, and women increasingly choosing to associate with fellow women for comfort and companionship, whether romantic or platonic. This then begets the next question : what will be the effect on the masses of young men ineligible for the game of hypergamy?
drive through the Black-American ghetto.
That’s where it’s headed; mostly incompetent, emotional men, lots of crime, bastard kids everywhere, unruly women.
Women have never loved men; they want the resources that they typically got from men.
That’s why a man now need Game or passports to get laid consistently. Longterm solution is put them back in the home, uneducated so they have no options.
Well written piece, but sadly falls on deaf ears, especially for women. Even with all the empirical data, they just create a new 'dragon to slay', for example, now blaming pre-menopause, menopause, postmenopausal, or peri-menopausal 'issues' that were never addressed as the new 'boogeyman'. Women will never admit that feminism fucked generations of women, so they double-down and defend the ideology. They want to be right so badly, that they forego happiness in the process.
Ironically, the women's health 'issues' weren't addressed before because they were a biological inconvenience for the ideology.
In fact, not so long ago, many of the points I've seen women's health campaigners make were widely dismissed as misogynistic myth (i.e. falsehoods, stereotypes and narratives meant to justify inequal outcomes).
Yep. "Women can do anything a man can do" ... except during her period, or while pregnant, or for a year after pregnancy, or any time around menopause, or while she has emotional upset at home.
Fellas. Don't...get...married.
Sad that the feminist solution to female unhappiness caused by feminism is always more feminism. It is a shame that young women aren't capable of learning from the experience of older women and they always reinforce feminism. Someday this may change but for the foreseeable future, it will keep getting worse.
good stuff Richard, we're completely out of line with natural law
Great article, Richard. It brings to mind a recent essay by Unbekoming, which is perhaps complementary to your post -- that being the contribution to this whole episode in human history of hormonal contraception -- the chemical element layered on top of everything you've outlined here. https://unbekoming.substack.com/p/the-progress-that-wasnt
The future is man and his machine
You both state that women generally have office jobs that nobody would miss it it disappeared (sort-of true), and that women are chasing careers.
Maybe it is just a difference in language but to me, an office clerk can be said to have a job. Like most of the workforce, they don't have a career.
That in itself might be part of the disappointment. Boys are told to get a job and are happy to have one. Women are told to have a career (with sparkly images of managerial positions and salaries to match) and 95% are unhappy when they find all they end up with is a boring 9 to 5 job that they hate.
The great researcher William Collins (The Empathy Gap) once said the best trick feminism pulled was to convince women not to live free at home with someone else responsible for the bills, and instead go off to a boring job all day and become a wage slave.
Feminists have created a nightmare for women. How many of these 20,30,40 years olds are going to feel the same way about being single when they are 50 or 60? This placeholder for happiness sold by feminist is going to wear thin in a few decades of cat ownership.
Data are
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To understand the structural nature of the problem simply consider this - how many of the leading feminist voices are career oriented rather than family oriented and how likely do you think they are to willingly step aside and allow a mother returning from years of child-raising to take their place on the lectern or publishing schedule?
For structural reasons the career oriented women have dominated the debate since at least the start of 2nd wave feminism. They have set out to replace patriarchy but the last thing those women were interested in was matriarchy. They have created a narrative in which motherhood is low status while career oriented things are high status. For those few women who got the publishing deals and places on the presentation circuit that might have given them the social reward they desired but most women are finding what most men learned already from the previous generations - work does not care about you and they will forget you soon after you walk out the door.
It is the reward structures of academia and the mass media that sorted so effectively for career oriented voices to dominate the discussion. It seems to me that other voices have very likely existed but we will not have heard them. We now have decades of collected feminist thought and very little of it is uplifting of the things that actually a lot of women always wanted - better relationships, more supportive husbands, and a reflection of how important parenthood is to society. The best that the career oriented version of feminism we have can offer to mothers is to hand off your children to strangers at subsidised rates so you can go back to your precious status-building career.
Funny. The first thing I saw in the late 60's was more men practicing love 'em and leave 'em and trying to convince women it was okay. Seemed like masculine duty to family as a value took a hit then too. Seems like feminism became mainstream a little later, as did porn. A lot of women went to work because husbands sent them, too.
Yeah. I don't have data, but it seems like a minority of men won the sexual revolution. I think most men did better under monogamy, where a woman had to commit early, based on a man's potential. Then his best hope of satisfaction was a happy, faithful marriage, since catering to biological urges toward variety tended to have long-term consequences.
Maybe I'm wrong, but it's definitely not all about feminism.
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